A Request – A request from every father and mother to read and follow the following advice: Praise your child in front of others. Don't make him/her criticize himself/herself. Tell him/her 'Please' & 'Thank you'. Treat him/her as a child, and let him live his/her childhood. Assist him/her to make decisions. Encourage him/her to read the Holy Quran Daily. Consider him/her a guest of honour in ...one of the occasions.Ask him/her for his opinion and take his/her advice on some matter. Dedicate a corner for their work and write his name on the achievements.Assist him/her to choose good friends.Make them feel important and that ALLAH has given them capabilities. Teach them to pray and instill in the principles of Iman (faith in ALLAH). Teach them the skills of expressing opinions and presenting them to others. Teach him/her how to read instructions and follow them. Teach them how to set principles & duties for themselves and follow them.Teach him/her First Aid skills. Answer all his/her questions. Keep your promise(s) to him/her. Teach them simple cooking skills (e.g. boiling eggs, warming bread etc). Teach him/her the Importance and the Power of Baraka and supplication. Teach him/her how to work within a team. Encourage him/her to ask questions. Make him/her feel he/she is important among their friends. Explain to him/her the reason for any decision you take. Be with him/her on the first day of school. Tell him/her stories from your childhood. Make your child play the role of the teacher and you the role of the student. Educate your child how he/she can be found if he gets lost. Teach him/her how to say (No) to wrong doings/things. Teach him/her to grant and give to others. Give him/her enough money to take/make proper action when/if needed. Encourage him/her to memorize and recall. Teach him/her to defend himself. Answer his/her queries and doubts (about himself). Do not threaten him/her at all. Teach him/her how to face failure. Teach him/her how to invest his money. Try something new for him/her and you with the results known in advance. Teach him/her how to mend his things and keep them tidy. Share his/her dreams and aspirations and encourage him/her to have them. Teach the differences between male and female in the light of the Quran. Teach him/her the good values and principles. Teach him/her to be responsible for his/her actions. Praise his/her works and achievements and teach them to write them down. Teach him/her how to deal with pets. Apologize to him/her for your real mistakes. Make one day of the week, a day of surprises to him/her.
2014-04-18 04:24:06
A Request
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