Most so called changes for someone else is not true change. It seldom lasts and you have to wonder why someone would ask someone else to change anyway. Unless that person "offers" to help you with changes that will lead you to healthier happier life or to become a better person. That is always a personal choice. Be true to who you are. Changing yourself to make someone else happy can only lead to resentments in the long run. ~Lessons Learned In Life